In the end it’s not about which movie won or lost. (Or at least it isn’t to me; I’m sure it is to the producers and directors!) It’s about seeing the movies beforehand, keeping my own little tally. It’s about settling in to watch the festivities and see what the evening has in store.

Of course, what it has in store is pretty much the same from year to year — bright lights and gorgeous gowns, highly scripted performances. And then there are the acceptance speeches, our best hope of real human emotion. Last night didn’t disappoint. There was J.K. Simmons telling us to call our mothers. There was an excited Eddie Redmayne sharing his award with ALS sufferers. And then there was the director of “Ida,” the Polish film about a nun discovering her Jewish past, which took the award for best foreign language film.

Pawel Pawilkowski told his Polish film crew to have a drink. He mentioned his late wife and parents, who were very much a part of the film, and his children, “who are still alive.” He fought against the music that was trying to drive him offstage. But his words stuck with me:

“We make a film about silence and withdrawing from the world and the need
for contemplation – and here we are, at the epicenter of world noise
and attention. Fantastic — life is full of surprises.”

Life is full of surprises, and sometimes even the Oscars are.